ENFP Relationships- Core Elements

The core elements of love and a healthy relationship are trust, respect, attraction, and investment. According to TypeMatch Relationship Dynamics, here is how those elements align for ENFP Relationships:

Trust:

ENFPs trust those who have a clear vision for their future, a plan, and want to involve the ENFP. They trust those that are insightful and are able to see beyond the material world to what things could be. They distrust those who are overly tied to the past and tradition and cannot imagine other possible ways of moving forward in the future.

Respect:

ENFPs respect those that respect their values and make them feel heard and understood. They lose respect for those who do not understand or share their values. ENFPs respect those who understand and empathize with their perspective and can realize the truth in it. When an ENFP respects someone they will value them and their opinion greatly.

Attraction:

ENFPs are initially attracted to those that think highly of them. Basically, ENFPs love to have their achievements and status acknowledged and admired. Conversely, they become easily annoyed when someone tries to make them verify their beliefs without any regard for how they feel about them.

Investment:

When an ENFP decides they want to be with someone, they invest their loyalty into the person. They become willing to settle down and allow the person to become part of their day to day even if that means a bit of routine. They become totally comfortable with the other person and imbed them in their memory. As a result, if a breakup happens, it can feel for the ENFP as if their comfort and sense of security has been stolen from them. When an ENFP wants to move on, they have nothing to do with the person and will erase all memory of them.