Who ENFJs Are Most Compatible With
ENFJ’s personality compatibility is based on the cognitive alignment of the types, their temperament, and their interaction style. ENFJs are as follows:
- Cognitive functions: Fe Ni Se Ti
- Temperament (Kiersey): Idealists
- Interaction style (Linda Berens): In Charge
There is no perfect 100% compatible match. ENFJs are scored for their compatibility with other personality types based on four factors- communication, passion, friendship, and partnership. A match that is high in one is often lower in another. It is up to the individual to decide which factors are most important for them in a relationship.
Communication
ENFJs have the greatest compatibility in communication with types that share the same cognitive functions. The cognitive functions are like languages our minds speak and when someone has the same functions, we do not have to translate our minds to them. ENFJs speak the languages of social connection and patterns. As a result, ENFJs communication compatibility can be broken down as follows:
- High Compatibility: INFJ, ENFJ, ESTP, ISTP
- Medium High Compatibility: INTJ, ENTJ, ESFJ, ISFJ
- Medium Low Compatibility: INTP, ENTP, ESFP, ISFP
- Low Compatibility: ISTJ, ESTJ, ENFP, INFP
Partnership
For partnership, ENFJs are most compatible with IP types- meaning INTP, INFP, ISTP, and ISFP. Together, they are the most efficient and get the most done. The two balance each other out in terms of roles and preferred task focus. Furthermore, their working styles do not clash with each other, preventing conflict and complacency.
Friendship
For friendship, ENFJs tend to be compatible with fellow NJ types. This means they have the greatest compatibility for companionship with INTJs, ENTJs, ENFJs, and INFJs. These types see the world through a similar lens and so can easily get along and enjoy activities together.
Passion
ENFJs have the greatest amount of passion compatibility in a relationship with those that have opposite cognitive functions to them. For them, ENFPs, INFPs, ESTJs, and ISTJs are polar opposites to them and create a spark. However, this passion can also turn to the most electric fights. These types together are the most likely to resolve their arguments with “physical activities.”